Comments on: meet someone exactly where they are http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/ Mon, 22 Mar 2010 06:02:25 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Danielle LaPorte http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/#comment-2954 Danielle LaPorte Thu, 24 Sep 2009 22:33:57 +0000 http://whitehottruth.com/?p=4936#comment-2954 welcome! xo welcome!
xo

]]> By: laurel http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/#comment-2908 laurel Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:22:08 +0000 http://whitehottruth.com/?p=4936#comment-2908 Oh my Gosh- I very beyond blessed to have found this blog. Today here now. I love ALL you say and have been popping around for a bit. Your insight is fab. I wrote a list of things I would say to my teenage self and it is so so much like you. Some how I know I was meant to find you Soul Sister! Thanks Bedlam of Beefy for the link!!!! xxoo Oh my Gosh- I very beyond blessed to have found this blog. Today here now. I love ALL you say and have been popping around for a bit. Your insight is fab. I wrote a list of things I would say to my teenage self and it is so so much like you. Some how I know I was meant to find you Soul Sister!
Thanks Bedlam of Beefy for the link!!!!
xxoo

]]> By: Kris http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/#comment-2275 Kris Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:05:26 +0000 http://whitehottruth.com/?p=4936#comment-2275 Wow. I've had moments where I accepted someone for who they are and felt happy about it. It's a struggle though, seeing where they are and trying to get them out of the pain they're in. But alas, it's something they'd have to do themselves. Wow. I've had moments where I accepted someone for who they are and felt happy about it. It's a struggle though, seeing where they are and trying to get them out of the pain they're in. But alas, it's something they'd have to do themselves.

]]> By: Elle http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/#comment-2190 Elle Sat, 11 Jul 2009 14:05:49 +0000 http://whitehottruth.com/?p=4936#comment-2190 I thought it was love. And, maybe it was in a special way, however, I did try to always change him. To get him to be at the level I was in thought. I tried to teach him. How wrong I was to do that. I was wasting my time, and slowly breaking him down to hate what I was doing to him. I still cherish the moments of happiness, but I know it wasn't meant to be, then. Whatever the future brings is another thing. At least now I do know that I cannot change anyone to think like me. I must just enjoy them for who they are, and what THEY contribute to life, relationships,etc. It took me many years of losing one love after another to learn this simple lesson. I blamed others for my losses. I blamed things from back into my childhood. I didn't learn how to forgive truly. I said I forgave, but deep in my heart, the anger was still there. Now, I am learning how to use that anger, changing it to knowledge (an experience that no one in the world had except Me). I AM SPECIAL FOR THAT. I CAN LEARN AND ACT NOW WITH A VIEW OF THE WORLD THAT ONLY I HAVE AND HAD. AND, I CAN MAKE THOSE THOUGHTS THAT BROUGHT OUT HATRED AND ANGER IN ME, NOW TO BRING OUT LOVE. How to change hatred to love. I thought it was love. And, maybe it was in a special way, however, I did try to always change him. To get him to be at the level I was in thought. I tried to teach him.
How wrong I was to do that. I was wasting my time, and slowly breaking him down to hate what I was doing to him. I still cherish the moments of happiness, but I know it wasn't meant to be, then.
Whatever the future brings is another thing. At least now I do know that I cannot change anyone to think like me. I must just enjoy them for who they are, and what THEY contribute to life, relationships,etc.
It took me many years of losing one love after another to learn this simple lesson. I blamed others for my losses. I blamed things from back into my childhood. I didn't learn how to forgive truly.
I said I forgave, but deep in my heart, the anger was still there. Now, I am learning how to use that anger, changing it to knowledge (an experience that no one in the world had except Me). I AM SPECIAL FOR THAT. I CAN LEARN AND ACT NOW WITH A VIEW OF THE WORLD THAT ONLY I HAVE AND HAD. AND, I CAN MAKE THOSE THOUGHTS THAT BROUGHT OUT HATRED AND ANGER IN ME, NOW TO BRING OUT LOVE.

How to change hatred to love.

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]]> By: Live More Now http://whitehottruth.com/white-hot/meet-someone-exactly-where-they-are/#comment-1818 Live More Now Mon, 01 Jun 2009 18:03:13 +0000 http://whitehottruth.com/?p=4936#comment-1818 This is truly wonderful. It is what we aspire to and rarely achieve. The letting go of what we want, versus accepting and appreciating what we HAVE. Again, many thanks for your thoughts! This is truly wonderful. It is what we aspire to and rarely achieve. The letting go of what we want, versus accepting and appreciating what we HAVE.

Again, many thanks for your thoughts!

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