my 3 answers to those 3 simple success questions

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In response to my 3 simple questions to simplify success article. Erika from the very thoughtful LifeBlazing.com wondered out-loud what my answers to these questions were. Hmmm. Good one. Here goes:

1. What do you do (that gives you joy, because why bother if it doesn’t bring you joy)?

First and foremost, I philosophize. It makes me feel wildly free and relatively useful. And that freedom is pure joy. Sometimes though, it makes me feel tangled, lost, and selfish.

In my early twenties, I did a meditation with Barbara Marx Hubbard. I saw two objects: a feather and a gold pen. And I heard very clearly (as if every cell of my being had it's own set of bionic ears,) that my purpose was to evoke the truth. (Just this year I learned that a feather is the Egyptian symbol for truth.) I believe your life purpose is what you say it is, so I decided to take that mission and make it mine.

I philosophize via writing, and speaking - on stage, on TV, online. I aggregate different wisdom sources. I deliver my stuff with transparency, and I pendulum between urgency and a 'whatever, all-in-good time' pace. And while I'm philosophizing and pacing, the result is that other people's truth tends to get piqued.

2. Who cares about what you do?

Meaning seekers and meaning makers. People who think. People who ache with that beautiful longing to live, really live. People who are interested in other people. People who contemplate and generate love ('cause love is a verb, and can't "just" contemplate it.) People who are interested in the thrill of entrepreneurship, of generosity, of financial freedom. Chicks and holistic men who are interested in the deeply divine Feminine, and creative, crazy fulfillment. People who probably read The Artist's Way, The Creative Habit, Good to Great, Alan Watts, Krishnamurti, Ken Wilber, Mary Oliver. They appreciate Oprah, pop culture, the I Ching. A few of them are design fanatics. They recycle, religiously.

3. How do you get to who cares?

TWO WAYS. One is purely energetic, the other is literal and promotional.

Method #1: I "get to people" by being as real as I can possibly be. Authenticity is magnetic, after all. I claim my place as a teacher. I maintain my role as a student. My most stirring and "popular" writing are the pieces that are the most self-revealing, provocative and/or poetic. I put myself at the center of the equation, but I still maintain a deep level of privacy and solitude for myself and the people in my life. (This is why I'm not a diarist.)

Method #2: I broadcast my stuff to the max. Every medium - print, TV, blogs, interviews, stationery, gigs - I am committed to rocking out in multi-media, far and wide.

Why? Because meaning seekers and meaning makers are everywhere.

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  • SAS
    Being authentic is so satisfying. When I try to be something else, it hurts all over. I say the wrong thing. I feel awful. I cannot seem to squeeze myself into any shape other than authentic. Am I bragging here??
  • LifeBlazing
    Bragging? No. Beaming beautifully? You betcha!
  • LifeBlazing
    "And while I'm philosophizing and pacing, the result is that other people's truth tends to get piqued."

    Now THAT'S an understatement :-)

    Danielle, I'm so grateful for the evocative piquing... and the hearing of my out-loud wondering.

    With wild and untamed thanks for it all,
    Erika
  • Danielle, you seem to know where you're going and how to get there. I find that it's an incredible thing. That sense of clarity and meaning gives you confidence and it allows you to enjoy life more and impact others more.

    That's how it works for me. Does it for you?

    Eduard
  • Danielle,
    Yea for Part II! You're responses made me think about mine in a deeper way.
    Take Care,
    Jill
  • Authenticity and passion are absolutely magnetic, I agree 100%. This is especially true for someone that makes it a habit. Thanks for sharing, good stuff :)
  • Traci
    Whoa...gold pen and feather gave me goosebumps. Fantastic!
  • Wow, thanks so much for sharing your answers with us! You are really so inspiring. This will help me kickstart how I will tackle these questions myself ...

    By the way, I spent all night doing the exercises you wrote about on Zen Habits (http://zenhabits.net/2009/02/first-your-feeling... ) and my God, it was self-revealing. It also revealed simple little things I could do to make me feel my best! I also was not aware of my desired feelings until I wrote them out: feeling indispensable, strong, affluent, and pretty/feminine. it made me think about my daily actions and long term goals in a clearer and more defined way.

    You're a revolutionary, girl. I'm so happy I found this blog.
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